Friday, March 15, 2013

Hendersonville Health and Rehabilitation, Mom's last days

Hendersonville Health and Rehabilitation, Christopher Sprenger, Michael Deloach and Dr. Larry Joe Russell, Lara Mooney, Susan Habel, Gail Maloney and Maude "Cookie" Romeo. This would be my letter to all of you.
To Whom It May Concern,
My name is Chris, My Mother Patricia was trusted to your care for a couple of weeks in October  and
November 2011. (wow 2011, it doesn't seem that it has been that long ago). She died in your care on November 3,2011 around 5:10 am. She was supposed to come home that day.
I cant tell you how much I loved my Mom. She was the one person in the world that never found any fault in me. Believe me there was plenty of it in me, but not in Moms eyes. I only wish I had the same capacity to see past peoples faults, that she had to see past mine.
 Mom loved her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Mom knew what it was like to be in the middle of a situation where one of her kids did not see past the faults of one of the other. But Mom never saw any of those faults. She was wise in many ways, and all of her children called her at least once a week for advice.We are all lost, and faced with the reality that we have to use our own judgement, and without her input, that's scary!
The reality is that Mom and Pop are both gone. I like to think, they instilled in me the desire to do right. I know they tried, but I was still a work in progress. I hope to do my parents proud with the way I raise my children.
I miss the connection I had with my sisters, Mom made sure that we always made time to be a family. Even if you were feuding with someone in the family, you didn't feud at Moms house. Sooner or later you would forget the feud, because Mom wouldn't stick up for either one.
I don't know exactly what happened that morning at Hendersonville Health and Rehabilitation, but I think I know more than Dr. Larry Joe Russell. I know that if Mom never had never been in your facility  things would be different now. Mom spent the last night of her life in your care.The research I've done shows that Mom was not the only one to spend her last day in your home. There are an alarming number of people who don't survive your care.
I sure do love my Mom! I will survive without her, but I miss her and will think of her every day. I wish peace to all the others that lost their loved ones to your "care".

CC: NCDHHS

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